The most effective way to prepare your mind to win a pageant or competition is to embrace your uniqueness and do something different than the average contestant is doing. This will make you even more memorable and allow you to be authentic to yourself and showcase your personality! Understanding what makes you unique and what gifts you have to offer allow you to embrace yourself on this journey through the world of perceived competition.
Being a greater version of yourself allows you to continue growing and honoring yourself and your Creator while still connecting to others around you who are also searching to express their greater vision. I don’t believe we were meant to be duplicates of others, but instead own our unique gifts and attributes whether they are physical or spiritual. You need to give yourself permission to be great in your own eyes because so often we are the only people holding ourselves back from embracing our journey into that greatness.
In the world of pageantry or any perceived competition, I work with contestants whose greatest fear is not actually losing the pageant but winning the pageant they are competing in. There is something to be said about having a fear of being different because it separates us from the approval of the masses. I have learned from first-hand experience and teach my clients every day that the higher you succeed in any industry, especially pageantry, the more you become a target to those who want to see you fall. Not because of anything personal about you, but because you mirror something within them they have not yet embraced. It becomes uncomfortable for some people to watch you grow into a more confident and comfortable version of yourself, because they may not have yet granted themselves permission to do the same. Whether people love you or hate you, it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with how they feel about themselves. If you remember this, you will allow the love of your desire to become better than you are today, to outweigh the fear of the unknown. – Excerpt from Preparing the Mind to Win.
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